Happy morningvation 😊❤❤❤🌸🌸🌸
We have the power to create beauty from ashes…..
Whatever we go through….there’s always the solution in our hands.
The unexpected will happen. But that will not train us down.
“I’ll fight to the very last breath I have…”
We fight odds every single day of our lives. These odds are sometimes thrown at us from without….But I think the greatest odds are those from within.
I grew up hearing that a stab in the back made by an acquaintance is nothing compared to a stab in the face made by those you love.
Odds are anything that stands in your way to getting where you want to be. To some, these odds are habits, I mean…nasty ones, to others, these odds are family. This sounds quite weird but there’s a time unacceptable truth slaps you, right in the face to accept it. To others, these odds are enemies.
At times these odds just come pushing, and pushing you so hard, that you feel the strength you thought you had, is nothing compared to the wasted feeling you get of yourself_The hurts.
And then you cry, till you groan. That feeling of pain sterming right from your heart. “And then you cry not because you are weak…but because you have been strong for too long”
I am currently going through what I’ll call the worst phase of my life. A time where a mix of hard decisions are starring right in my face. A time where I self evaluate myself and realise certain truths, I’ll want to call them lies.
Have you ever been there, when you refuse the reality of things??
I just want to wake up and feel the lines of my life falling into pleasant places. But that’s not what I see now. I’m fighting my odds. So hard, that I loose my motivation to fight.
I write motivational posts….but I have been in situations where my drive and determination that I thought I had, failed me.
Then I’m still left with myself. Just “ME”. Looking at me and myself. I still have to do what I can….even when I can’t do it. I still need to press on…even when I don’t know where I’m going to have such strength to move on….
It is a battle within my life. I’m fighting a fight that requires strength. But I don’t know where I’m going to have that!
What’s my lesson?
I often hear people say don’t cry….be strong….
But I’ll tell you…cry…and cry…out all you’ve got. Cry out the pain, that helpless feeling, that stress, those worries…..Get angry…not at yourself…but at where you are.
For in your anger of where you are will stern the courage you need to fight with for a better you.
There are no odds you can’t defeat….
I say these to myself. I motivate myself
Because I have learnt, that we never stop learning.
As you fight on remember, you are your coach. The victory lies within you…search it and you’ll find it.
Love you all ❤❤❤❤❤
The world has a way of breaking us down. But when that’s done, we only get stronger at the broken points. Life’s lessons are endless and ceaseless. Each day brings a new lesson, exposing us to many opportunities. Some of which will make or marr us. But whatever the case might be, we only get stronger.
Strength is not for the powerful but for those who have the desire to live, and expirience what life holds. We can never be in control of everything. There are times when we face difficulties not of our making, but it comes as a test of strength.
So, seize every opportunity that comes your way, make the most out of it. If we fall, we rise. If we get broken, we mend. The choice is up to is. Life has given us a plethora of choices. We either choose to be kings or beggars.
You might have failed but that doesn’t make you a looser. You are a mere proof that you are tougher than you think you are, haven withstood the challenges of life. That alone makes you victorious
Sometimes we need to remind ourselves this if no one else does….
As I lay down in that dark corner of my room, wondering and pondering why would someone I so much trust, leave me hanging at this painful and hard time of my life… How will I get out of here…. My trust has been broken….
The sense of betrayal creeps in and my heart start closing up to never trust anyone anymore. “I need to be on my own,….those I trusted are not worth trusting and so is anyone I encounter… Wouldn’t want to re-live this experience the second time”
No one seems to be telling me what my heart craves to hear. My mind has it registered, “I couldn’t succeed and push through with my plans because I was betrayed by those I trusted”.
These thoughts creep in day by day, months, years, and I discover that there is nothing I’m holding unto to, than these thoughts….. They become an integral part of me. It affects my relationship with people, it affects my perceptions in life, it affects my working relationship, it affects practically everything about my personal growth…..
The days seems to be like seconds and months like minutes and years like hours…. Each passing day, the more I realise its so hard for me to Let IT GO.
We often rely on people, because we need them. As the popular addage goes, ” No man is an island” we need people. Because they give us a sense of belonging.
But, the major problem I faced was, I never realised that people come into ones life for a particular purpose. And when they’re done, its but normal they leave. There’s no one man who’d teach you all the lessons in life; those who betray you, teach you to be brave, those who abandon you, teach you to be responsible, those who show you love, teach you to love others. And so on!!!!
This was so hard for me to accept…. But its a truth I learnt to. And it has drastically changed my perception to this regard.
When someone you trust leaves, he didn’t really leave, he just made way for someone else to come show a lesson to you that’d make you unique and different form others…..
Tough times prepares us for future adventures. When the going gets tough, only the tough get going……..