A Letter To My Younger Self🌸🌸

Dear younger me,
You were so brave, full of life and had a sixth sense to see the good in all that happened.  You could cry, but only for a moment. You never knew how, but you always believed that everything is going to be okay!
Your courage and determination could be seen in your smiles everyday. Every single day was cherished. And if there was anything you ever believed in so strongly was yourself, which you did all the time.
While sleeping, you let your worries slip through you. And slept with such comfort that, even the midnight angels wondered on your courage.
You had no broad idea about life, yet you had to key to suceed in life. You saw everything as been possible, acheivable.  You doubted less, cried for a moment and next, giggled it out.
You could ignore anything that didn’t suit the mood you wanted to be in. You dreamt all the dreams you carried inside of you. You envisaged what you wanted to become when you get older. You saw it so clear, that it wasn’t blurred with fear, insecurity and doubt. You never knew how, but you believed it will come to pass.
You carried yourself with so much trust and confidence in those you loved. Till the point where, you never worried yourself if they will be able to provide for you. All you knew inside of you was, “My food’s gonna be on the table soon”, “I’m starting school soon”… You knew things come to those who believed.
You knew you wanted to become great! And you had so much faith in yourself that you will. You focused on what you wanted and not what you thought wasn’t going to be what you wanted.

Now, years have creeped in, and I’m lot older. There are facets about you that I miss. I thought my growth was applied to all levels. But that isn’t the case. I fear more, more sensitive to failure than I am to sucess.  I am so drained in my fear of failure that I have loosed my focus on life’s beauty. I smile, but at same time, I think on my problems. I have grown. As I had always wished to. But I realise there are phases in my life that needs the younger me. So I guess, my lessons are not ended. My point of referral is not on outsource references. I will refer to you and learn the most of which I couldn’t.
Hope to learn from you soon. As you walk in the shadows of my past, I’ll get a right to take steps back, to aim for a great leap into my future.
With much love❤❤❤

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We move on in life. But there are times we need a stop, and a rethink. We might be suprised, that the best teacher in your life, is you. There’s no other person who knows you better than you.

Look at where you are!!!

We never know how strong we are till we face challenges…..we never know how far we have gone till we look behind and catch a glimpse of where we were. Only then will we better appreciate where we are. It doesn’t suffice to say you’ve tried and nothing’s done. In your little efforts lies the step for change.

The beauty about life is not living to overcome all difficulties. It is to live to see another day you know nothing of, conquering and losing but yet gaining lessons on being a better you. Good things happen for a reason and so does the bad. But whatever be the case, we need to self appreciate where and who we are.

Life is a journey. This means we decide to move ahead or backward or not to move at all. The very reason you live is a proof that you cling to hope. Hoping that your tomorrow will be greater than today.

A living dog is better than a dead lion. You have come this far to give up. Hang in there!!!

Lots of love❤❤❤🌸

Your Attitude will Determine your Altitude…

Here’s a little “morningvation” for us all. The attitude start with in the morning, determines how our day will be. That’s the power of a positive mindframe. The attitude we potray faced with adversity will determine how high we will overcome that problem.

Truth is, life’s good. But that doesn’t mean because life’s good…..there’s the absence of problem. Relatively…I think problems give a certain beauty to life. They’re unexpected, and usually takes us unawares, helping us to realise and discover our internalized talents and strength to resist.

We will never know what we don’t expirience

How do you react?? I get sometimes defeated way before the war is waged. But no one defeated me but myself. That attitude resulted to how far I could think of going. We are limitless. You can achieve what you want to. But it takes a push…..not just little but harder to realize how greatly endowed you are. And that’s keeping the right attitude in the midst of the storm.

It’s actually more difficult to do than it sounds but it’s not impossible. What stands between us and our goals is fear…. I tell u, this word is able to hold you hostage for years asking questions when you would have accomplished what you wanted.

But we shouldn’t forget that fear is part of our emotions. It eminates from us and so we have the power to subdue it. And you have that power.

Don’t give up because if you do, you are actually giving up on yourself.

Always remember to score a high jump….you need to gather your momentum and propell yourself beyond what you think are your limits.

Shine Bright🎇🎇

When the dusk gets darker…..it is a clear indication that the dawn is near.

Shine on through the darkness, the worries, and the confusion because at the end of it all you alone decide how bright you will want your life to be.

When I looked up into the sky this evening…I got an inspiration. The stars in the vast firmament look like randomly placed dizzling crystals…. They are surrounded by the dark cloud, yet they don’t get intimidated to shine on to their maximum.

I wonder where nature got such courage.??

They might have been small yet they grace and adorn the night with such elegance and beauty.

It’s not how much you think you can do….It’s all about consistency in doing what’s right

Don’t go out of your way thinking it might not work….Stay there and keep doing it!!!

Wherever you are, the world beckons on you to fulfill your role in making the world a better place. The reality about life is, the world’s made up of people…..not a person….but it needs you to fulfil what you should because no one else can but you…..That’s how unique you are.

“A living dog is better than a dead lion”. As far as you are alive, there’s hope for you. Just keep believing that you can and you will…

Be the best that you can be.

# you are awesome🌸❤💜💙💚

Its a New Dawn

A year like no other,

A time which has never been,

I set my goals to go further,

And pursue all of my dreams.

Its time to plant now,

Its another time to sow,

Working to reap my dreams,

Hoping to have a win.

Do something new🎆

We all have dreams, goals, objectives we have set before us. We all have that dream self employing business we wish to start up. We have drawn knowledge from both schooling and experience. We read books over and over and over again. And at some point, we work. Working what everyone else is working. Sooner or later, comfort doing the usual creeps in. Not long than we can notice, we work and spend. And there, our lives goes in circles and circles.

Time passes, but our acheivement is not propotionate to time passed. Why???…. We need to stop doing the usual. Try out something else. The greatest of people who have achieved are not people who dwelt on a source of income for so long. They are those who understood the principle of adopting various income source to generator more and more of it….

I recently attended a seminar that changed my perception in relation to leadership….!!!  Who is a leader??? “A Leader is someone who takes responsible decisions, transform them into actions to bring about positive change. There’s one thing with change, it attracts. The moment you start doing the extra people will emulate you. 

The great difference between a successful person and someone who’s trying to be successful is that fact of identifying opportunities. Let our dreams not remain dreams, let them become a reality. But as long as we do not do something extraordinary, we remain where we have always being.

Unless we act upon our dreams, they will only remain illusions and fantasies….make your dream life real…

Like the popular addage goes if you want to earn extraordinary income so extraordinary things. 

What therefore is extraordinary?? 

“It is anything done out of the usual”. At this point many will think that what you are doing might not be enough to yield the future you so much desire …..but the greatest of achievers were not those who did not fail for once, but those who never failed trying”

Try and try and try again, till you acheive. There’s no harm trying😊🎆❤

Happy Wednesday 🌸🌸

You are Beautiful (Part II)

Hit by the many waves of life, languishing in tears over loved ones gone, feeling broken due to broken trust, feeling helpless when in need of help…….are the one and one too many despairs and painful moods and feelings we often find ourself in daily. But all these do not amount or cannot be compared to the wonderful AND beautiful person that you are.

You, standing there, though with tears of pain lurking in your eyes, still have the power to make the decision and choice to live.

Lately, a lot has happened to me…. A lot both good and very saddening…. I have lost someone so dear to me. Someone so important in my life….And here I am again, starring into the deep vacuum left in my heart. Truth is, we gain, we loose. But no matter where you find yourself, the ultimate is, you are still standing….right there with an ounce of hope in heart♥. 

So in this season of thanksgiving, I choose not to stare at the confusion mix problems I have lying ahead of me. I choose to stare at the wonderful memories I have.

The creates place of investment is not in your assets. But in yourself. When you invest value into your life, you don’t need someone else’s approval of being the best. You know you are.

When I stumbled on this quote today, I learnt that happiness is not achieved from the outside but from the inside. Letting go, though it seems as the hardest decision to make, is the best. Because sometimes, holding on gives us more and more pains.

Let go of anything that makes you feel less worthy and start cultivating those things that add value to your life. You are beautiful, unique, different and loved.

It all depends on you how you want your Story to be told. Make it worth while.💚💛💜🌸

Tuesday Quote: Perseverance

When we loose hope in waiting, we loose the reason for which we are waiting. Its not how long you spend waiting to acheive your goal, what matters is, “have you acheived it?”. It might take years, but that doesn’t mean you won’t acheive. Failure in achieving what we want comes in when feeling fail trying.

Hang in there, and hold on to you’re quest in achieving your dream that will change your life.

Happy Tuesday🌸🌸🌸🌸💗

Who Am I?

A question we all ask ourselves at that point, when we seek to know more of our identity…….There’s a lot of work that has been made on your life. There’s a lot of investment done to produce the wonderful person that you are. Time has been invested. Years have done and gone with each passing day filled with experiences out of which you have been forged.

I told and reminded myself over and over again, who I was and who I am. Beacause its not who you were that matters, but who you are. Born in a family of 6, I was the 6th and last child of my mum. Few months to my delivery I lost my mum. When I was five months old. And for some reasons I can’t understand, my dad left us.

These were the most detresssing times of my life I remember. Growing up with my uncle, who acted as a father figure in my life, gave me strength. I had lost confidence in myself. When I was aged 9, i learned of the hidden truth from my uncle. Then, I could see children with their parents, the love they felt and encouragement they got and……..I looked at myself and wondered why my dad left me and mum left me too. My brain couldn’t process that at all.

I began learning to self encourage myself. My uncle then was too busy with work to feed the family. I learnt to be self dependent at a very tender age. To make do with what I had, and what I couldn’t have, I could only hope to have it someday. I feared failure because I knew the pains my uncle will get through in helping me. I found myself trying almost to avoid it.

That as who I was!!!! only a fraction of what I went through though. But my past are flames out of which I am forged. It made me beautiful today

And today, I do not rely on the pain causing parts of my past. I rely on the strength it gives me. I am strong lady, resistant, determined, focus and brave. Oh yes! No one did it, but my pain made me so. Times came when I cried out my eyes. But after doing so, I usually wipe off my tears, pick up the puzzle pieces of my life, and fit them together again.

Where I felt love lacking, I loved myself. Do not wait for others to love you to find that satisfying love. If you can’t love yourself enough to improve on yourself, then, no one ever will.

Yes, i made a lot of mistakes but I never dwelt in them…… There were times and there are still, when I felt and feel like giving up. But I think again and bounce back on my feet. This is who I am. No longer afraid of making mistakes..😊… When I make them, its my duty to set them right!

To better appreciate who you are….remember who you were! Let time and God be the sole factor that ameliorates your person. I asked myself this question. Its time to Recycle your broken past. Now is your turn. Who are you?

Love u all💜💜

Thanksgiving 💕 & Friday Quotes💭

Hello friends,

Here are some inspired quotes I wish to share with each and everyone of you. I would really say, being a blogger for over 3 months I have met wonderful bloggers and friends I would call. You all have been a source of encouragement to me. And I really wish to be same to you all.💗💖💖💕

I woke up feeling grateful in my heart that you all have given me a platform where I can show off what I think is the best. Sometimes I write with some uncertainties but your replies give me so much joy and fulfillment. My heart goes out to all of you.

I scribbled down a couple of quotes which gorged out of me early this morning. When I was writing them out in my diary, then I felt the need to share.

QUOTE #1

For everything we wish to receive, we should be able to reflect the attitude which is needed. Always stay positive, your attitude will lead you to greater opportunities..

QUOTE #2

Love is all you need. It is all the world needs. We crave to love and be loved. Wherever need be, show little acts of love. For it has the power to brighten up every situation.

QUOTE #3

Cherish every moment. Through the hills and valleys, the ups and downs. The tough and good times. For in everything there’s a lesson to learn.

QUOTE #4

You got the decision power to be what you wanna be in any given life situation. Its all left for you to make the right choice. Decide to be a wonder to many and a source of inspiration💕

My heart goes out to all of you. With lots of love💖💖…. Thanks for taking out time to read and have a wonderful week end ahead.

#happyblogging🎆🎆