Wednesday Thoughts: Seize the Opportunity

Happy morningvation 😊❤❤❤🌸🌸🌸
We have the power to create beauty from ashes…..
Whatever we go through….there’s always the solution in our hands.
The unexpected will happen. But that will not train us down.
Happy Wednesday!!!

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3 Days Quote Challenge: Day 1

Today marks a happy day in my blogging expirience. I was nominated earlier today by My Kaby’s owner of the site Bittermarshmellos, to participate in a three days quote challenge. It is a unique blog with a unique angle and content are quite inspirational.
Let’s begin,

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Explanation:
It is often said everything happens for a reason. And so does failure. Failure is a word we never want to expirience because it has a way of making us feel worthless. But we will never be able to better appreciate what we have until we have loosed it several times.
That’s the beauty of failure. That each time we fail,  it makes us better appreciate sucess when it comes. ..
So what am I saying……

Focus on the lesson life brings and not on the journey itself. There’s more to it than you think you see…

My Nominees
1) Inspire someone today
2) The fourth dimension of life
3) Kanwischer

Happy blogging❤🌸🌸🌸🌸

Melodious Wednesday🎵🎶🎶🎼 : You are not alone

Don’t give up

It’s just the weight of the world
When your heart’s heavy
I… I will lift it for you

Don’t give up
Because you want to be heard
If silence keeps you

I will break it for you

Everybody wants to be understood
Well I can hear you
Everybody wants to be loved
Don’t give up
Because you are loved

Don’t give up
It’s just the hurt that you hide
When you’re lost inside

I will be there to find you

Don’t give up
Because you want to burn bright
If darkness blinds you
I will shine to guide you

Everybody wants to be understood
Well I can hear you
Everybody wants to be loved
Don’t give up
Because you are loved

Courtesy: Metrolyrics

This song motivates me alot whenever I listen to it. I know there’s my God who watches over me…..Who’ll break my silence, and heal my hurt.

Hope you all have a day blessed with love.

Remember You are loved

Shades of friendship

Friendship is a relationship of mutual affection between people. Friendship is a stronger form of interpersonal bond.

We often tend to associate or identify ourselves with people who share same views in life like us, and why not same principles. Friendship is a great gift, and has alot contributing to the healthy(physical, emotional and pshycological) state of a person.

Every friendship has something it offers. That’s why we just can’t get enough of having friends around us. But the proximity of someone to your heart determines what kind of friend they are.

1. The Heart friends:

This probably sounds weird because I just formulated the word. But these are those who feel more like a family to you.These are the people closest to you, those you call first when something important happens, those you love even when they not worth it, who make speeches at your wedding, whose best and worst sides you know through and through, and whose relationship with you is eternal—even if you go months or years without hanging out, nothing has changed when you find yourself together again. They’re those who will remain with you despite the odds. They are friends for a lifetime.

2. Part time friends

Okay….Just as it sounds these are those who are seasonal. But doesn’t discard the fact that they aren’t loyal. Of course they are…but they come in when asked to. But in trying times….they’re likely to let you flat or stick by you. It’s in their nature to be seasonal.

3. Benefit friends

They are your friends because there’s something they need. This doesn’t mean they are mean or bad. NO! It just happens you have something they’re in need of and the only way to get that is to get close to you.

Why I wrote on friendship

This doesn’t actually match in line with most of my posts since they’re motivational. But I looked at relationship and understanding persons. This has really been a problem to many.

Everyone in your life has a role to play whether good or bad. We seek to understand people but the truth is we never will. We accept their behaviors and give a closed eye to their weaknesses. I’m not being pessimistic but we will never be able to understand someone’s weakness or fault whether intentional or unintentional because our human mind is not receptive to things that hurt it. That’s why we resort to “shedding tears” and “feeling hurt”.

How do you cope with people??

I have had alot of expirience here….some of which made me cry, others happy and others very depressing. But as time went on I learnt these:

1. Cry as much as you can. If you get hurt by a friend let it all out. It’s teaching you to be wise in dealing with people.

2. Never avoid them. It’s normal to Chove from those who hurt you. But they’re teaching you to be strong.

3. Never talk back. This is really hard. But it’d make you the better person.

4. Show them love. You become a transformer and changer. You will influence their behaviour.

Those who betray you teach you to be wise

Those who hurt you teach you to be strong

Those who abandon you teach you to be independent

Those who love you teach you to love

They are just shades of friendship

Do it NOW as though it were

When growing up, I usually heard my dad saying:

If you wanna be rich, then start acting as one, thinking like one, and behaving as one.

The truth is, we’ve been waiting sometimes, thinking our dreams are far off, and we’re to make a very long journey of life to get there. Our dreams are in  us. If ever, we should achieve what we want, we must bring ourselves to the point where we “become” our dreams. 

We often say we need time because the actual realization of our thoughts has not been manifested without! But we carry our dreams within. If there should be a positive change, then we need to do it now as though it were.