OUR WORDS DEFINE WHO WE ARE๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ€…..

Words convey our moods or feelings. They express us. They can build and create a wonderful feeling but they can also destroy and hurt others so bad.

Words said can never be undone. And hurtful words create a scar in the hearts of those who receive them.

In this 2019, let our words build. Let our words beautify, because, we choose what words to say. Words aren’t beautiful nor bad. But the person who says it, is.

Make a speech when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever live to regret

When we get hurt, we so want to express how we feel……and sometimes we feel we don’t deserve to be the only ones hurt. Those who hurt us must feel how we do.

In the guise of conveying how we feel, we speak out hurtful words.

Misunderstandings are solved by communicating. But doing so at the right time will create a more lasting and powerful effect.

There are some words which are better off to be left unsaid.

The best response to give when you are so upset and badly hurt is to say nothing at all

I always had it hard to deal with. But later on I realised how to overcome this weakness.

What to do when you’re hurt:

  • When hurt, don’t focus on the millions of reasons you were hurt by someone, rather, focus on why they did that ? This will provoke you to engage into a conversation to find out why?
  • Don’t explain how the person made you feel on the same day you were hurt. There is usually that tendency for you to be defensive and less rational
  • Always remember the good times you once had. To err is human but to forgive is divine. We sometimes get out of our way….but what we need is correction in love.
  • Never let your heart become a grave yard. Don’t bury things. Say out how you feel….but be wise enough to do so when you’re not angry!
  • Always remember hurting the other makes us even worst.

As we dive into 2019, let our words be better๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ€

28 thoughts on “OUR WORDS DEFINE WHO WE ARE๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ€…..

      1. Exactly ….. The above of everything is the belief which we need to have it in ourselves that its not the otherโ€™s word which make us .. its about what we think of ourselves …๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

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  2. Oh my touch by this post. this blew me away. Thank you for taking the time to share these write up through these words.

    These words are painted in truth, experience and perspective. I especially love how you started it and how you ended the write up. Beautifully written and as I read through again on each line I was amazed . Each word you used are true and reflective of my personal encounter with people .

    This produced a smile on my tired face after a long day. Youโ€™re appreciated.

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      1. Thank you! I appreciate your thoughtful response.

        Such an awesome way of replying someone. Thanks. Again
        As always your posts are incredible and I enjoying reading every word down till the last line. I must say that you are probably one of the excellent bloggers on WordPress that write inspired
        Writing/post

        Also, I just posted:

        THE FATE OF A WOMEN-THE FOUR BROKEN MIRRORS (TALES)

        Would love to know your views. Love to see your contributions on it. Iโ€™m always excited for your comment. ๐Ÿ™‚

        You are welcome

        #PATRICKSTORIES
        Peace โœŒand Love โค

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