Words convey our moods or feelings. They express us. They can build and create a wonderful feeling but they can also destroy and hurt others so bad.
Words said can never be undone. And hurtful words create a scar in the hearts of those who receive them.
In this 2019, let our words build. Let our words beautify, because, we choose what words to say. Words aren’t beautiful nor bad. But the person who says it, is.
Make a speech when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever live to regret
When we get hurt, we so want to express how we feel……and sometimes we feel we don’t deserve to be the only ones hurt. Those who hurt us must feel how we do.
In the guise of conveying how we feel, we speak out hurtful words.
Misunderstandings are solved by communicating. But doing so at the right time will create a more lasting and powerful effect.
There are some words which are better off to be left unsaid.
The best response to give when you are so upset and badly hurt is to say nothing at all
I always had it hard to deal with. But later on I realised how to overcome this weakness.
What to do when you’re hurt:
- When hurt, don’t focus on the millions of reasons you were hurt by someone, rather, focus on why they did that ? This will provoke you to engage into a conversation to find out why?
- Don’t explain how the person made you feel on the same day you were hurt. There is usually that tendency for you to be defensive and less rational
- Always remember the good times you once had. To err is human but to forgive is divine. We sometimes get out of our way….but what we need is correction in love.
- Never let your heart become a grave yard. Don’t bury things. Say out how you feel….but be wise enough to do so when you’re not angry!
- Always remember hurting the other makes us even worst.
As we dive into 2019, let our words be better🍀🍀
28 responses to “OUR WORDS DEFINE WHO WE ARE🍀🍀…..”
Wonderful message !! So true are your words ,cheers!!
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Thank u so much for stopping by!!!
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My pleasure 🙂
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My New Year’s resolution? Let It Go. 🌟✨💫
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Wow. That’s amazing!!!!!!!! Thanks for sharing
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I enjoyed this. Thank you 😊
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Thanks for stopping by😊😊😊
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Nice
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Thanks you so much for stopping by😊😊😊
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This is a wonderful piece .. I mean even I feel that minding our words is so very important .. We have no right to judge anybody’s patience level ..
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You are absolutely right there!!!! But people are different and some will never behave the way u expect them to. Thanks for stopping by and for your contribution
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Exactly ….. The above of everything is the belief which we need to have it in ourselves that its not the other’s word which make us .. its about what we think of ourselves …😍😍
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So true😊😊😊
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you have used your words wisely… great message
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Thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏
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Thanks for accepting and following my blog.
I’m available to read your post at my convenient time.
You have such an interesting topic I will love to read in
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I still remain the simple blogger…..
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Peace ✌and Love ❤
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It was a pleasure doing so.
I have been following up your write ups for quite sometime now and I must say I’m always inspired leaving your site😊
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Thank you! I appreciate your thoughtful response.
Such an awesome way of replying someone. Thanks. Again
As always your posts are incredible and I enjoying reading every word down till the last line. I must say that you are probably one of the excellent bloggers on WordPress that write inspired
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Will have a look right away….thanks so much Patrick!!!!!
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Oh my touch by this post. this blew me away. Thank you for taking the time to share these write up through these words.
These words are painted in truth, experience and perspective. I especially love how you started it and how you ended the write up. Beautifully written and as I read through again on each line I was amazed . Each word you used are true and reflective of my personal encounter with people .
This produced a smile on my tired face after a long day. You’re appreciated.
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Thank you so much Patrickstories
I’m so much glad you felt inspired reading through my thoughts and expiriences.
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Peace ✌and Love ❤
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Thank you! I appreciate your thoughtful response.
Such an awesome way of replying someone. Thanks. Again
As always your posts are incredible and I enjoying reading every word down till the last line. I must say that you are probably one of the excellent bloggers on WordPress that write inspired
Writing/post
Also, I just posted:
THE FATE OF A WOMEN-THE FOUR BROKEN MIRRORS (TALES)
Would love to know your views. Love to see your contributions on it. I’m always excited for your comment. 🙂
You are welcome
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace ✌and Love ❤
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I really like the idea of building a better world through our words in 2019. Great post. -Jill
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